Welcome!
Welcome
Design Your
Daring Life
Life coach for young adults
and for women
WHEN YOUR YOUNG ADULT IS STRUGGLING TO MOVE FORWARD
You spent years raising them, but now you’re unclear how to help.
You want your young adult to move forward with confidence, but you no longer know how to make that happen.
Helping your young adult see who they are, and design a way forward.
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Watch your young adult take responsibility for their future
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Experience clearer more respectful communication
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Build a respectful, adult-to-adult relationship
This is harder than you expected
You thought by now your child would have a direction.
You thought they would feel more confident, more independent, more ready.
Instead, you’re watching them hesitate, question themselves, or avoid making decisions altogether.
You try to help, but it often leads to frustration or distance.
You’re constantly wondering if they’re going to be okay.
You question whether you’re helping too much or not enough.
You feel the tension every time you try to talk about their future.
Your young adult feels intense pressure to choose the “right” path, afraid of making the wrong decision, so they stay stuck.
And you feel it.
That quiet fear in the background.
Waiting for something to go wrong.
Constantly worried about them and their future.
They don’t always know how to express what they’re feeling, so they shut down or push back.
And now, instead of feeling close, your relationship feels strained.
If nothing changes, the gap between you grows.
Confidence doesn’t build.
And the future feels uncertain for both of you.
But it doesn’t have to stay this way.
It doesn't have to stay this way
The truth is, this can change.
You can have a relationship with your young adult that feels calm, connected, and grounded in trust.
You can…
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Feel confident stepping back without fear
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Trust your young adult to make their own decisions
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Have open, honest conversations without tension
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Watch them move forward with clarity and purpose
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Enjoy your relationship again without constant worry
This process helps them take ownership of their life and move forward with confidence.
You show up calm and supportive without overstepping.
You feel connected to your child while honoring their independence.
You feel clear and confident about
what's next for you.
I've been where you are
As a mother of both a son and a daughter, I know what it feels like to worry about your child’s future and question whether you’re doing too much or not enough.
I’ve lived through moments where my children were struggling, even when they didn’t show it on the outside. I’ve felt the fear, the uncertainty, and the responsibility of wanting to help them get it right.
What changed everything was learning how to communicate differently. I stopped trying to direct and started learning how to listen, guide, and trust the process.
Professionally, I bring years of experience in education, counseling, and leadership. I am a Certified Life Coach with a Master’s degree in counseling, and I’ve developed a structured approach to help young adults move forward with confidence.
I’m also an author, and my work is grounded in both real-life experience and proven methods.
Now, I help young adults gain clarity, build confidence, and take meaningful steps forward.
I also work with women, including moms, who are ready to focus on their own next chapter.
1:1 Coaching for your young adult
Your son or daughter works directly with me online in a private, confidential coaching space.
This is where real growth happens.
They will:
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Gain clarity about their future
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Build confidence in their decisions
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Learn how to manage fear and uncertainty
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Communicate more effectively
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Take meaningful steps forward
How we get started
Option 1: Start Together
We begin with a conversation that may include both you and your young adult.
This allows us to:
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Clarify expectations
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Establish roles and boundaries
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Create a shared understanding of the coaching process
From there, your young adult continues in private coaching.
Option 2: Coaching for Your Young Adult Only
If your young adult is ready, they can begin coaching directly with me.
All sessions are private and focused entirely on their growth.
Coaching for You
If you are ready to focus on your own life, you can work with me separately.
This is not coaching about your young adult.
This is coaching about you.
Your goals.
Your direction.
Your next chapter.
Let's Talk
If you feel like talking things through, I invite you to reach out.
This is simply a complimentary conversation to explore what’s on your
mind—without pressure or expectations.
Sometimes what helps most is having a space to:
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sort through what you’re thinking and feeling
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gain clarity about how you want to show up
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talk things through with someone trained to help you sort it out with clarity and care
If this feels helpful, I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. Let’s talk. ☕
Coffee With Connie:
Real Conversations for Women
Please join me each Sunday morning for a simple, free
30-minute space to pause, reflect, and spend a little time thinking about your life—and whatever might be on your mind.
Bring your favorite mug or beverage and simply come as you are.
There’s nothing to prepare and nothing you need to have figured out. Just a quiet, supportive space to reconnect with what matters most to you.
Sundays at 9:30 AM PT💻 Live on Zoom. Come to one, or come to all. Register only once.
Design Your Daring Life Workbook
This workbook is a powerful resource for both you and your son or daughter.
Filled with thoughtful prompts and simple exercises, it helps you reflect, gain clarity, and move forward with confidence—while offering your son or daughter a way to better understand themselves, their strengths, and what they want next.
It’s a meaningful way to grow individually—and to connect through shared insight and understanding.
Many moms choose to gift this to their young adults as they
step into independence.